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Take your new address off the sites an ex could search.

A custody dispute pulls your address back into public view — new home, new filings, updated registrations — and people-search sites re-list it within weeks. You can't hold back what the court needs or what your attorney has to disclose. But you can take down the publicly searchable copy anyone can pull up. Delist removes your personal information from the internet and keeps re-filing when a broker puts it back.

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New-address removal All name variations covered Household-link removal Re-listing monitoring Encrypted and access-controlled

A custody dispute is a fresh burst of public records — and brokers move fast on it

Every move, filing, and re-registration during a custody case is a public record. Data brokers are built to find those records and aggregate them, and they do it within weeks. Here's where your new address leaks back into public view.

Your new address is searchable within weeks of moving out

New lease, license update, voter re-registration, utilities — each one feeds broker pipelines. Soon after you move, people-search sites list your current location, often right next to your old household and a co-parent's name.

The court file and the public copy are two different things

Custody filings and the address you disclose in the case are legal records — they stay in the court system, and that's between you, your attorney, and the court. The problem is the second copy: the version brokers rebuild from public records and publish for anyone to search. That copy is the one we take down.

An ex already knows your history — the new details are what's exposed

A former partner knows your name, your relatives, where you used to live. What a custody dispute changes is your new address and current phone, and a people-search site can hand those over in a couple of clicks. That part you can control — you can hide your address from an ex's casual search by clearing the public listings.

Household links tie you to your co-parent and kids

Brokers connect records by shared address and family relationship. Your listing names a co-parent and household members as "associated people," and their listings can point back to you. Co-parenting privacy protection means cutting those public links, not just your own single record.

Background reading:How public records directories work

See which sites are listing your new address, former names, and the household links between you and a co-parent right now.

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How we protect your new address during a custody dispute

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Audit your exposure

We scan the web for every name variation, both old and new addresses, phone numbers, and email addresses. You'll see exactly which sites hold your information and what they've linked to your current location.

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File removals across the brokers

We submit opt-outs for every listing we find, covering current and former names. Where a listing ties you to a co-parent or household member, we work to break the public "associated people" link too.

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Verify and follow up

We verify each removal after it processes. When a broker stalls or ignores the request, we escalate — and when a listing reappears, we re-file.

4

Keep watching

Updated registrations and data-source refreshes generate new listings, especially while a case is active. We detect the reappearances and re-file removals — so your new location stays off, not just for the first round but every time it comes back.

Why ongoing removal beats a one-time opt-out

Manual opt-outsGeneric privacy toolsDelist.ai
Places covered10-20 (if you find the time)50-200Brokers, AI, search, dark web
Name variation coverageMust search each separatelyLimitedAll known names
Old + new address coverageMust track both yourselfPrimary onlyFull history
Household-link removalEasy to missRarelyWe go after it
Re-listing detectionYou notice it yourselfPeriodicContinuous
Time investmentHours per monthSetup + periodic check-insWe handle filing + follow-up

Common questions about custody and co-parenting privacy

During. New listings appear when you move and re-register, not when the case is decided. The sooner we start filing removals, the less time your new address sits searchable while the dispute is still hot.
No. Court filings, custody orders, and the address your attorney is required to disclose stay where they are — those are legal records, not data-broker listings. What we remove is the publicly searchable copy: the people-search sites that let anyone pull up your new address in a couple of clicks. To keep your address off the court file itself, ask your family-law attorney about address-confidentiality options or a substitute service address in your state.
No. Co-parenting still runs through the normal channels — your attorney, the court, a parenting app, whatever the order sets. We only take down the public directory copy that anyone on the internet can search, not just your co-parent. Legal contact and the exchange of information the case requires are untouched.
That's beyond a routine privacy cleanup, and you don't have to sort it alone. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788) is 24/7 and confidential, and our guide for survivors covers address-confidentiality programs and safety planning. Broker removal is one piece of that plan — the piece you can start today — but it isn't the whole plan.
Family plans cover household members. Children mostly appear on listings as "associated people" linked by a shared address — removing yours breaks that link. Older children with their own listings get their own coverage under the plan.

See what's searchable about you.

A free scan shows which sites are listing your current and former addresses, name variations, and household connections. We start removing what we find from there.

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